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                  The 
                  fast of Karva Chauth is of particular importance to Hindu women 
                  as they believe it ensures the well-being, prosperity and longevity 
                  of their husbands. The origin of this festival was based on a very 
                  sweet and noble idea. Though this idea has lost its true sense as 
                  today the whole outlook of this festival has changed. Long time 
                  back, girls used to get married at a very early stage, and had to 
                  go and live with their in-laws in other villages. If she had any 
                  problems with her husband or in-laws, she would have no one to talk 
                  to or seek support from. Her own parents and relatives would be 
                  quite far and unreachable. There used to be no telephones, buses 
                  and trains long ago. 
                Thus 
                  the custom started that, at the time of marriage, when bride would 
                  reach her in-laws, she would befriend another woman there who would 
                  be her friend or sister for life. It would be like god-friends or 
                  god-sisters. Their friendship would be sanctified through a small 
                  Hindu ceremony right during the marriage. Once the bride and this 
                  woman had become god-friends or god-sisters, they would remain so 
                  all their lives and recognize the relation as such. They would also 
                  treat each other like real sisters. 
                During 
                  any difficulty later in life, involving even the husband or in-laws, 
                  these women would be able to confidently talk or seek help from 
                  each other. Thus Karva Chauth started as a festival to celebrate 
                  this friendship (relationship) between the once-brides and their 
                  god-friends (god-sisters). Praying and fasting for the sake of husband 
                  came later and is secondary. It was probably added, along with other 
                  mythical tales, to enhance the festival. In any case, husband would 
                  always be associated with this festival, because the day of starting 
                  this holy friendship between two god-sisters was essentially the 
                  day of bride's marriage to him. Thus praying and fasting for him 
                  by his wife during a celebration of her relationship with the god-friend 
                  would be quite logical. 
                Thus, 
                  originally Karva Chauth is once a year festival to renew and celebrate 
                  the relationship between god-friends (god-sisters). It had a tremendous 
                  social and cultural significance once when world lacked the ways 
                  to communicate and move around easily.  
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