SHIVA
AND PARVATI
Sati was reborn as Parvati, daughter of Himavan, King of the mountains
and his wife, Mena. Narada saw the child and predicted that she would
marry a yogi with no family and no home. Her parents were unhappy but
Parvati, aware of her great destiny, was glad. The parents too were
reassured by Narada.
Destiny at Work
And then many things happened. Parvati dreamt of Shiva and so did
Himavan. Shiva chose a spot nearby for his penance. Himavan reserved
the area for his exclusive use and went there with Parvati to welcome
him with an offering of fruits and flowers. He also suggested that his
daughter and her friends look after his daily needs. Shiva, wary of
women, particularly one as beautiful as Parvati, told Himvana that he
did not wish to have her serve him. His manner was brushque and he was
quite categorical-woman, how said, was the root of all worldy attachment.
Himavan fell silent, but Parvarti who was not the shy retiring girl
that Sati was, spoke up boldly and clearly. She told him that the power
behind his penance was Prakriti (Nature) and that he could not do without
her. Shiva replied that he was trying to destroy Prakriti with his penance.
Prakritit was a force that all good persons should root out. He felt
confident that he would be able to eliminate her. Parvati laughed and
said that he had been swallowed by Prakriti already, but had not realised
it. She concluded the argument by stating that she was Prakriti and
he, Purusha and that if he was confident about his self control, he
should not be affected by her proximity.
It was a cleaver challenge to have thrown
his way. Shiva gave in and permitted her to serve him in dangerously
intimate ways- after all he was not supposed to be afraid. She would
rub his body down with a warm cloth, wash his feet and drink the same
water in a gesture of devotion and subservience he found difficult to
resist. She performed menial jobs like cleaning and scrubbing. The lord
was definitely yielding, but wanted her first to destroy her ego totally
and that would involve penance- the sure, and perhaps only, way to Shiva's
heart. That was how Sati had won him too.
At this point the gods stepped in. the
demon Taraka was on the rampage and only a son of Shiva and Parvati
could kill him. Things were moving to a close. Kama was summoned by
Indra and received with much flattery. He boasted that he could do anything,
even tackle Shiva. He was landed with just that task. He left with his
wife Rati and his inseparable companion, Spring, Vasanta.